Momma Courageous

Ok so here we are, the day after Erin's second shoot. It was bitterly cold under the graffiti bridge, but she didn't show any signs of cracking under the pressure. Not only did she go out and absolutely nail this shoot, but she knocked her first shoot out of the box.

Okay. I promise not to be jealous. I promise not to be jealous. My good friend Lorraine Sanabria Robertson over at AskWifey.com, is probably dusting the sand off her suitcases right now while I'm stuck in the house looking at the remaining mounds of Atlanta snow outside my kitchen window! Wifey and hundreds of other mommy bloggers were living large at Walt Disney's Social Media Moms Conference in Orlando this week, and I'm trying not to have an A-Town 'Tude.


Just think, the first ever, family-friendly social media conference for moms included conference sessions and private parties throughout the 40-square mile entertainment complex. Not only did Wifey and her entire family get to escape the snow and experience the magic of Walt Disney World, they also got to hear from topnotch speakers like Chris Brogan, Guy Kawasaki, Maxine Clark, MaryEllen Hooper, and more.

For a meager $350 she got a hotel room for Feb. 10, 11 & 12 at Walt Disney World, conference sessions, Theme Park tickets for herself and up to three family members during the conference, and select meals for the conference attendee. Gesh! What's a woman gotta do to get in on cool deals like this! Perhaps I need to start hanging out with and The BlogRollers, the social media marketing group Lorraine heads up with her buddy Christie Glascoe Crowder, the head honcho of the popular Chatter Box Show.

Okay, all hateration aside, I can't wait to read AskWifey's blog this week because she always has the best posts and cutest pictures. Next year, I'm soooooooooooooooo there! Don't forget me, Wifey!

Thanks to Ms. Stylatude, I have the perfect prom advice for would-be prom attendees:

With the 2010 prom season just around the corner, I am going to step in for Stacy and Clinton and offer advice on "What not to Wear." First and foremost, step away from the chiffon, satin, frilly, cream puff dresses. I know this contradicts everything you have read and goes against the grain, but it's time to make a change.

If you don't heed my advice you will be subject to a PROM MISS because you will miss the fashion mark and look back at your pictures and wonder, what was I thinking? So, now that I have addressed what not to wear and the consequences of making a PROM MISS, let's talk about what to wear.

When considering what to wear, follow these steps:

Step 1: determine what color compliments your complexion

Step 2:  identify a style that compliments your body

Step 3:  select a dress that is physique friendly--consider body proportion when deciding on the length, style/fit of your dress. Thick thighs can be concealed with a long dress, if you have Tina Turner legs, go for the short length (to the knee--mini dress only if you can pull it off----i.e. bold, short and svelte).

When selecting a style, think about a dress that can go beyond the prom. There will be other formal events in life and it would be wise to purchase a multi-purpose dress to use for future events. If you are "boobylicious" please forego the strapless and low-cut, cleavagically challenging dresses.

If you can't decide on the style of your dress, do what our first lady Michelle Obama does and opt for the sheath style. This style dress flatters all figures and if you feel it is too plain, embellish with bold, blingy-type accessories.

Also consider fabric when selecting your dress. If you sweat profusely or if you plan to dance and party like a rock star, step away from silk and other fabrics that are heavy and do not breathe. If you must have silk, go for a heavier weight silk like raw silk that maintains its form. The light weight silk has a tendency to attract stains (body lotion, oils, etc.) and requires more maintenance as far as wrinkles and dry cleaning.

Whatever dress you decide on, just let it be an expression of your style. You are allowed to make a personal statement when it comes to your personal style. You know what looks best on you as far as color and style. If not, ask a good friend or relative or think about what you wore that got you the most compliments.

Everyone has stylatude (fashion savvy with attitude) so tap in to yours and rock that prom! Attitude kicks even the worst outfit up a notch, so don't forget the most important accessory of all "stylatude! P.S. Don't leave home without it.

Next blog: Ms. Stylatude's take on finding the perfect shoes, accessories and hairstyle.